The value of now.
There is a particular energy to the third week of a new school year. The first-day nerves have largely disappeared, timetables are becoming familiar and the school has settled into its proper rhythm. What begins to emerge is something rather more revealing: the natural curiosity of children getting on with the business of learning.
There has been plenty of that at Bishopsgate this week. Yesterday’s Neurodivergence Coffee Morning was an important reminder that children do not all learn, develop or flourish in exactly the same way – nor should we expect them to. Today, our Year 3 pupils headed out into Windsor Great Park, where learning took on a rather different form: walking, observing, talking, noticing and wondering. There is something wonderfully uncomplicated about a child encountering the world at first hand and asking, quite simply, “Why?”
Perhaps that is why a book I picked up last week has made me think. Neil Postman’s The Disappearance of Childhood was first published more than forty years ago and argues, provocatively, that the boundaries between childhood and adulthood have become increasingly blurred. I am not persuaded by every aspect of his argument, but the question at its heart feels increasingly relevant: in our understandable desire to prepare children for the future, are we always careful enough to protect the value of childhood itself?
That question has felt especially pertinent because I have spent part of this week conducting one-to-one interview practice with some of our older pupils, alongside meeting families through our Bishopsgate Pathway Programme to discuss senior-school choices.
There has also been a rather lovely reminder this week of where those journeys can lead. From Marlborough College to Brighton College, I have had the pleasure of hearing how former Bishopsgate pupils are getting on after leaving us at the end of Year 8. It is enormously rewarding to hear that they are not simply coping with the next stage, but thriving in it – confident, engaged and making the most of the opportunities around them. That, ultimately, is what successful preparation should look like.
These conversations are inevitably about what comes next. But good preparation should not mean accelerating childhood. Nor should interview preparation be about creating perfectly polished answers or manufacturing an impressive candidate. It should help children become more articulate about who they are: what interests them, what they enjoy, what they have found difficult, what they have learned and what they might like to explore next. At Bishopsgate, the next school should fit the child; the child should not have to be engineered to fit the school.
There is an important distinction here between preparation and acceleration. We should prepare children exceptionally well for their futures, certainly, but that does not mean making childhood resemble adulthood sooner. Indeed, many of the qualities they will ultimately need most – curiosity, confidence, imagination, judgement, resilience and the ability to relate well to others – are developed through a childhood that is rich and properly lived.
That thought was reinforced this morning when we were delighted to welcome the Headmaster of Brighton College to lead assembly this morning. His message began with the wonderfully memorable proposition that “cakes can change the world”. Behind it lay a much bigger idea: who can make the greatest difference in the world, and how often it is the smallest things that have the greatest impact. He reminded us that children do not have to wait until they are adults to matter. A kind word, noticing that somebody is on their own, helping another child, asking a thoughtful question, showing courage when something feels difficult – these apparently small moments are where character begins.
It is an appropriate thought as we look forward to opening our doors tomorrow for what promises to be a wonderfully busy Open Morning. We cannot wait to welcome a large number of prospective families keen to discover Bishopsgate and, for many, to secure a place here.
And some of our finest ambassadors tomorrow will not be the adults. Our pupils will be giving up their Saturday morning to welcome visitors, lead tours, demonstrate activities and answer questions about their school. I suspect it will often be the smallest moments that prospective parents remember: the spontaneous conversation in a corridor, an enthusiastic explanation in a classroom by our brilliant teachers, a smile at the door, or the confidence of a child describing something they genuinely love about Bishopsgate.
They are small things, perhaps. But they matter.
One of the responsibilities of a good prep school is not simply to prepare children for where they are going next, but to recognise the importance of where they are now. A reminder that a magical childhood is not a waiting room for adulthood. And that is something well worth protecting.
Mr Peter Thacker
Headmaster

As we usher in the festive spirit and enter the first day of December, the atmosphere at Bishopsgate is brimming with excitement. Much like the anticipation that accompanies the opening of the first door on an advent calendar, our school community is eagerly embracing this joyous season.
This week has underscored the remarkable talents of Bishopsgate children, displaying their multi-faceted skills across so many areas of our broad curriculum. From a captivating journey through time at the Eton Egyptology Museum to those competitive netball and football matches, our children continue to demonstrate friendship, teamwork, and sportsmanship, embodying the holistic development we aim to instil.
This week, I had the privilege of meeting Major General Paul Nanson, a distinguished figure who recently concluded an illustrious 34-year tenure as Commandant of the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst and Director of Leadership for the British Army. Engaging in conversation with him was not just an opportunity but an encounter with a reservoir of insights that resonated profoundly. I conveyed to him the seamless alignment between his focus on leadership and our approach to cultivating emerging leaders at Bishopsgate.
en the sound of laughter and joy across the playing fields as children have enjoyed the next exciting instalment of ‘Project Play’, thanks to those who have been so generous in contributing to our new adventure playground.